I donāt think this dilemma exists at all.
FearRP against Preds absolutely does happen- Recovery is not guaranteed.
I think fearRP against preds is much less noticeable for a few reasons:
A) 90% of marines ignore preds because they donāt want to deal with them, or are oblivious to them.
B) The 10% of marines who DO fight predators are much, much more likely to be experienced, competent players. These types of players donāt fearRP in general, and take calculated risks against xenomorphs instead of being overly cautious fearRPers.
C) Predators are optional side quests where you opt in to be legally griefed. You can ignore them completely and they wont bother trying to reciprocate with RP if you donāt show any effort to engage with them. If you win, then you get bragging rights and youāll rarely get the funny clan mask, which makes you a far more competent fragger. Itās also just fun to beat an enemy player when they objectively hold the advantage over you in most cases (though a competent marine with light armour, AP and premeds stands a good chance to solo most preds). They arenāt like xenomorphs where everyone is forced to engage them.
D) When marines gang up on predators in groups, herd mentality takes over and they unga hellpush without fear. This isnāt specific to predators, this is just what happens whenever you have a group of high morale marines who think they can win without significant risk to themselves.
Basically, the fearRPers will fearRP xenos and preds. These guys will be at the frontline or in FOB, and if they come across a pred, theyāll probably ignore them.
The guys who engage and shoot predators solo are usually competent players. These guys do not fearRP in the first place. In many cases, they will be actively seeking out predators if they see them for various reasons (low risk of perma, high reward if they somehow donāt SD, bragging rights, sense of pride and accomplishment).
To a spectator, youāll just see people either ignoring preds, solo fighting them, or swarming them in large groups. You might conclude this means people donāt fearRP preds, but thatās just false. Whilst the fearRP is lessened because thereās a lower risk and the fact that preds are optional, it very much exists, itās very much there- Itās just not as observable, because people are just ignoring the preds instead of fluoride staring at you in fear as you get dragged into the hive.
TL;DR the players who fearRP the xenos are not the same players hunting preds