Here is my take on how to fix the queue:
I think the larva dibs should also be removed from both the hugger and the hugged player. Because we don’t need multiple systems for this. We need one system that works with constancy. The mechanics that allow you to skip the queue destroy the very idea of a queue.
Yeah you’ll have to be glued to the screen. Or you can just wait for the next round. But I think people who are more engaged, more invested in the round’s outcome, who observe and participate in dchat deserve the larva more than someone who just leaves for 2 hours to go walk their dog, watch TV, wash their dishes and w/e. It makes a lot of sense that you need to be connected to the game to continue your participation in the round. If you don’t wanna be glued to the screen, then alt-tab or just wait for the next round. Why (basically) punish players who want to play the game to appease players who don’t?